Who is Zenshinzo

First off you can call me Zen or Joe (I answer to both)
“I am free, no matter what rules surround me.
If I find them tolerable, I tolerate them;
If I find them too obnoxious, I break them.
I am free because I know that I alone am morally responsible for everything I do.”
— RobertAHeinlein


Bullet Points: 

  • I am very complicated
  • I believe in: No Drama, No Drugs, and No Means No
  • I am a professional pervert
  • I enjoy riding my motorcycle
  • I love to travel and do it often
  • I am a practioner of shibari/kinbaku
  • I now live in Angeles City, Philippines
  • I don’t drink or smoke or do any drugs. However, I have no issues being around anyone that does.
  • I have an extremely varied amount of interests.
  • I am fairly comfortable financially and I am not flashy or trendy.
  • I enjoy excellent food, great company, and good times.
  • I am a night owl.
  • I’ve worked and still am around various aspects of the adult industry. (I see naked people for a living lol)
  • I live in a different world than most.
  • I don’t believe in absolutes, life is fluid and tastes, kinks, wants, desires, and needs change based on the situation and the people present.
  • I am extremely open minded and nonjudgmental. Even though it may not be something I am into, I can usually appreciate or respect why you are.
  • I have an odd sense of humor. It can be very dry, quick witted, and interpreted as abrasive to some.
  • I am a very Yin/Yang individual and with that, somewhat complex and simple at the same time. I am very chill most of the time and can be very intense when I need to be. Most people either like me or dislike me immediately.

My Relationship Views:

I do not believe that one person can provide all the emotional and physical needs for another one person. If I am interested in you, my other relationships do not diminish my interest or desire for you. Nor do my other relationships need to impact that relationship I am forming or have with you. My interest in you indicates that something about you is special to me. You are not dating me and whomever else I am involved with. My interest is in you. Whatever situation you have outside you and I, if any, is between you and whomever. I do not expect you to bring that to what we have or are developing. I will do the same.


My experience has shown me that any relationship is a selfish pursuit. Each person coming into the relationship has their own expectations and desires out of the relationship.  Also, that every relationship has a power dynamic. Which is almost never equal.

For me, the goal is to find someone that my selfish desires and expectations for a relationship is not so much in conflict with theirs. And that our power dynamic is agreeable to both of us.

If you are still interested in me:
If you want to be with me. First off, you must be nuts! Well, I can be pretty fantastic. ?
Here are some things you should know:
I am complicated, emotional, and a little moody. I am loud and I never get embarrassed. I talk a lot.  I can fuck for over two hours. My life is a roller coaster the highs are fantastic and the lows suck.
Here’s what I desire:
Communication above all else. Talk to me.  Be there when I need you. (I will say “I need you”) That means a hug, your presence, and/or your attention. Make me a priority in your life.
I’m not looking for an exclusive relationship. But I am looking for someone(s) to be with and spend time with. I will never get jealous, just keep any other relationships outside of ours.
Here’s what you get:
My priority in return. I am not a huge gift giver, but I am generous. I will listen, give you my time, and my heart. I promise to be fun to be around most of the time. ? I will have your back. I can be loyal to a fault. Did I mention I can fuck for over two hours?
To summarize:
I know I’m complicated, so I will tell you what I need when I need it. I won’t make you guess.
Make time for me and I will make time for you.  Make me feel special and I will make you feel special.
Did I mention that I value communication above all else?

Sexual Disclaimer:

You should know that due to my being diabetic and a spinal injury. I require an injection of medicine into my penis to achieve a functional erection. This erection can last up to 2~3+ hours depending on how much I am enjoying myself.

I basically turn into a human dildo.

Do not initiate sexual contact with me unless you are prepared to handle fucking for an extended period of time.

Also, know that, if you think all I want to do is to have sex with you, do realize, that I mentally go through a process where I assess whether you are worthy sticking a needling my penis for. Do note, most people I meet, do not rate.

“Sex without love is merely healthy exercise.” — RobertAHeinlein